Aita for explaining to my daughter why her milestones

Subject change but not really I guess. My brother is a single father and he and my niece always have daddy daughter dates. I laugh bec my bro use to be a long hair, skinny Jean (before they became popular) wearing, heavy metal listening person for the longest time. And he was rude. The moment my niece was born. He did a complete 180

Back when my BIL was 28, he had a "relationship" with a 15yo girl. He ended up in prison for 12 years on kidnapping and r*pe charges. He just got out 2 years ago and moved back to our home state 3 months back. You could have told your husband, “Eew. Yuck. You are sick,” and kicked him to the curb and gathered your wounded bird to your bosom and vowed to protect her. But nope, not you. YTA for destroying your daughter’s life with your piss poor parenting and self-involved behavior. Reply reply. I do love my daughter deeply but to this day I still have problems coming to terms with being a father, and envying my life before. I see my daughter mostly just on Christmas and her birthday. I’m not a very involved parent, in my defense I live an hour and a half away and work 6 days a week. When my daughter was 5 she was diagnosed with cancer. My ex passed away 3 years ago and my daughter Kara has been living with her uncle. He was the one to reach out to give me a heads up after she expressed an interest in wanting us to connect. He and I spoke at length because I was feeling some pretty strong emotions like rage for never being told about her. playdatesnacks. ADMIN MOD. AITA for not buying snacks for my daughters best friend at a play date. Asshole. I have an 11 year old daughter, Ellie. She has a best friend, Sophie, (12). Both of the girls have special needs and are around 6 years old mentally. Sophies mom called me yesterday, said that they were at an indoor playground, and Sophie ...Small business owners often have a difficult time managing projects. They have access to fewer resources, and therefore, often perform most of the operational, planning and coordin...

So last week, me, my wife and 2 kids went out to the zoo for my daughters 23rd birthday. We were having a great time. While leaving an enclosure some woman sort of cut us off and pushed in front of us to get out first. She didn’t actually touch us, and it wasn’t that big a deal but was a little obnoxious, and I said “there’s no need to ...OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: insisting that my daughter uphold her end of an agreement we made & punishing her for not upholding it 2) we made the agreement when she was only twelve, so my husband thinks that it should not still be upheld. 1 you should start listening to women. If you truly care about how others feel, you should listen to what they say, actively ask questions, and act accordingly. 2 always tip your waitress. It's not an easy job, and don't expect them to dance like a monkey for you before you allow them their livelihoods through a tip. Amy was 5 when we got together and as such I see her as my own daughter. On to the actual story, 4 years ago, two days before Kay's high school graduation, Amy got very ill while visiting her grandparents and ended up needing emergency surgery. My wife and I rushed to be with Amy and admittedly I did not communicate well with Kay.Even so, I simply don't want to live with Aaron. I don't like him. I don't want him around me. I'd go above and beyond for my daughter and the baby, they can stay as long as they need, but not him. Obviously, this has created a rift between my daughter and I. She doesn't want to live separately from Aaron.The commotion was so great that the reading of the will was postponed. That happened last week. Lara left her contact information with my grandmother's attorney. Today was the reading of my grandma's will and Lara was there, since she is still legally the daughter of my parents and the lawyer did not want to read my grandmother's will without ...Pick something entirely different for the first name and then Anna or any of those options you chose for the middle as a remembrance to the niece. If the child decides to use their middle name as their name later on, the sister still would have had years to mourn her daughter before this happens. 3. RarBlack.Asshole. I didn’t actually disinherit my daughter it’s just what my wife and her claims. My first wife had drug problems and still got primary custody of our son. I was young and didn’t fight her on custody and when he got older we weren’t close so I felt awkward asking him to live with us.

So AITA? Update: I confronted my wife about this and she said that it was a milestone moment and I should have stopped to get her to watch/record. I explained that I wasn’t thinking about recording my of it and more in the moment of it. I apologized for it hurting her feelings but stressed that I don’t think I did anything wrong.A father of twins is saving up to combat the wage gap his daughter is likely to experience in the workplace. By clicking "TRY IT", I agree to receive newsletters and promotions fro... 1 you should start listening to women. If you truly care about how others feel, you should listen to what they say, actively ask questions, and act accordingly. 2 always tip your waitress. It's not an easy job, and don't expect them to dance like a monkey for you before you allow them their livelihoods through a tip. My family was small, consisting of me, my husband, daughter, parents, brother, his wife, and two nephews. Their loss devastated my life and everyone else's, particularly my father and sister-in-law. A year ago, my daughter, Betty (25F), was proposed to by her fiancé, and preparations began for their wedding.She said not to talk to my niece about it because she wasn't 'old enough' and that I'd stepped out of line. When I told her that someone needed to explain it to her, she hung up on me and didn't return any of my texts. The next morning I took my niece to buy whatever she wanted (pads, some clothes, chocolate).The moment Helen held her future daughter-in-law’s hand, she knew everything was going to change. The connection and the bond she felt were undeniable, and it doesn’t help that the...

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My daughter is going through a phase where she is borderline obsessed with socks. It’s LMFAO’s “shots, shots, shots,” but to the tune of &am...Subject change but not really I guess. My brother is a single father and he and my niece always have daddy daughter dates. I laugh bec my bro use to be a long hair, skinny Jean (before they became popular) wearing, heavy metal listening person for the longest time. And he was rude. The moment my niece was born. He did a complete 180AITA for telling my 9 year old son he shouldn’t touch girls without their consent? My husband and I have three kids, 2 girls (teenagers) and a 9 year old boy. Last week I saw him on the playground putting him arm around a girl from his class and when I asked him about it he said she was his “girlfriend.” ... Daughter’s newly intensified ...Not the A-hole. My wife and I have always dreamed of celebrating our 40th anniversary with a luxurious vacation. Just the two of us, reliving the romance of our early years. We had it all planned out for years now and were excited beyond words. Enter our adult daughter Jane. Jane and her husband got wind of our plans and promptly invited ...OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: insisting that my daughter uphold her end of an agreement we made & punishing her for not upholding it 2) we made the agreement when she was only twelve, so my husband thinks that it should not still be upheld.

Iam 38F married to my husband 42M. Back when I was 16 I gave birth to my daughter, Mary, dad deadbeat but we’re fine now anyways. I started business in my early 20s and …Feeling unloved in childhood can affect our adult relationships. Here's why you may fall for someone with narcissistic traits, and what to do about it. If you felt unloved during c... the only reason why she feels disconnected from him is because she's being bratty about the changes. A literal CHILD is having a hard time adjusting to her new life actually opened up to you. She's a teenager dude. Even with an ideal home life their emotions are going haywire. Asshole. I didn’t actually disinherit my daughter it’s just what my wife and her claims. My first wife had drug problems and still got primary custody of our son. I was young and didn’t fight her on custody and when he got older we weren’t close so I felt awkward asking him to live with us.AITA for telling my daughter I don’t support her. Asshole. I (63M) don’t think I’m the asshole here since I can’t help how I feel, but my wife and son are absolutely furious with me. I have two children, Noah (35) and Janes (32)-fake names. Noah went to a good college, has a good job, is married, and has a four year old. My oldest is 25, that I had with a high school ex. Then we separated, and I married my husband much later. My younger two are 9, and 7. My younger children believe in Santa, while my daughters son doesn’t. She raised him not with the Santa magic, which is perfectly okay I just rather not have it ruined for my children who do believe in Santa. It happens. I was 20 When my mom died, everything fell on me for the most part. My older brother helped when I asked, but 100% of my measly check went into the house. I coordinated all the other financials like ssi payments, state aid, made sure everything was paid and food in the house not to mention bulk of cleaning while caretaking my grandma.Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: (1) Told my daughter she couldn't wear clothes she liked (2) Made her especially sad and uncomfortable.This is the one: You didn't want her. She is the reason her parents divorced. Sibling rivalry with the baby the parents planned and wanted. One of these would cause a teenager a lot of upset, I would say you've caused some irreversible damage to your relationship with your daughter. OPs daughter may feel slightly better about her social status leaving these kids out of her party, but these kids will always wonder what they did to her to deserve being othered. My only hope is that if OP gives in to the guilt trip, that none of these kids end up with lasting damage for the sake of an 11 year old social climber. Your line “I’m giving my second daughter the father my first didn’t have”. Dude seriously your FIRST STILL NEEDS A FATHER she NEEDED a father when her mom died. This is a woman who has never actually had your attention and love at all. Let me break this down for you - from her POV. You abandoned her for the first 10 years of her life.

I told my daughter that her dad don’t want to see her and showed her the texts he has been writing because she did not believe me. 2. This might make me an asshole because it really hurt my daughter and her dad says that I have now ruined their relationship among other things. Help keep the sub engaging!

Nov 4, 2023 | 5:20 PM. ADVERTISING. 'AITA for telling my 14-year-old daughter that she's average-looking?' I (F39) have a very insecure daughter (F14) who has a depressingly …playdatesnacks. ADMIN MOD. AITA for not buying snacks for my daughters best friend at a play date. Asshole. I have an 11 year old daughter, Ellie. She has a best friend, Sophie, (12). Both of the girls have special needs and are around 6 years old mentally. Sophies mom called me yesterday, said that they were at an indoor playground, and Sophie ...My (60sM) daughter (28F) has had a hard life. To be completely up front, my wife has never been kind to her, but she has her share of problems as well and I really do wish my daughter, Faye, would be more sympathetic to them. I married her 15 years ago and she is 57. Also to be upfront, I am a bit "online" myself and my wife and son (15M) do ...Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I told my daughter that I wouldn't be attending her graduation because I just wouldn't be practical to fly back and forth 2.Mia looked at me and said "sorry mom but I want him I know you and him have bad blood but I want him to do it I've been sending letters and he's been sending them back". I then said something I regretted I said "if you invite him I'm not giving you my wedding dress or coming". Mia started tearing up and said fine don't come and ran out now my ...My father would disagree about that whole stop being a parent when they turn 18 😂 made it a whole thing as soon as I turned 18. didn’t see a cent when going to college. All of mine was from prepaid my mom set up or her money. Then again my dad would also argue that he didn’t CHOOSE to have me and my mom “tricked” him.It's been a long time, and a lot of things have happened. I think it's finally gotten to the point where I can post an update that many of you asked for. I'll do shortest update to longest update. The dress: many of you reached out and offered to try and help, and I'm so thankful to you. I couldn't respond to everyone, but thank you so much.But for her it’s definitely a struggle and not how she’s wired or sees things. But for me it’s like nothings just mine to have - like all my things and milestones and parts of my life are never fully my own. Which is also a lot of my own problems too but this incompatibility doesn’t help and exacerbated things.

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Originally posted to r/AmItheAsshole. AITA for not telling my father and stepmother about my son's birth? Trigger Warnings: emotional abuse, verbal abuse, possible parental alienation, infantilizing behaviors. Original Post - Nov 7, 2023. My (26F) father (59M) has been dating "Paula" (38F) for 4 years.We ask “AITA” when we have faced a conflict and reacted or responded in a certain way. Here’s what to ask if you truly want to reflect on your handling of the …escapepodsbybob. ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my daughter she caused her own problems? Not the A-hole. My (m) wife (f) and I are both 48 with two daughters, Liz (30) and Ash (24). I’m not sure where to start with this so I’m just going to jump right into it. Liz use to date a young man named Pat. My oldest is 25, that I had with a high school ex. Then we separated, and I married my husband much later. My younger two are 9, and 7. My younger children believe in Santa, while my daughters son doesn’t. She raised him not with the Santa magic, which is perfectly okay I just rather not have it ruined for my children who do believe in Santa. My father would disagree about that whole stop being a parent when they turn 18 😂 made it a whole thing as soon as I turned 18. didn’t see a cent when going to college. All of mine was from prepaid my mom set up or her money. Then again my dad would also argue that he didn’t CHOOSE to have me and my mom “tricked” him.Daughter doesn’t like this teacher. The teacher cornered you in a hallway. He demanded ( not asked) where your daughter was. He didn’t like the answer and demanded again. He tried to INTIMIDATE you about YOUR child. He threatened to basically punish your daughter if you didn’t tell him why she was absent.My father would disagree about that whole stop being a parent when they turn 18 😂 made it a whole thing as soon as I turned 18. didn’t see a cent when going to college. All of mine was from prepaid my mom set up or her money. Then again my dad would also argue that he didn’t CHOOSE to have me and my mom “tricked” him.My oldest is 25, that I had with a high school ex. Then we separated, and I married my husband much later. My younger two are 9, and 7. My younger children believe in Santa, while my daughters son doesn’t. She raised him not with the Santa magic, which is perfectly okay I just rather not have it ruined for my children who do believe in Santa. ….

Small business owners often have a difficult time managing projects. They have access to fewer resources, and therefore, often perform most of the operational, planning and coordin...My family was small, consisting of me, my husband, daughter, parents, brother, his wife, and two nephews. Their loss devastated my life and everyone else's, particularly my father and sister-in-law. A year ago, my daughter, Betty (25F), was proposed to by her fiancé, and preparations began for their wedding.OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: Telling her she needs to be independent before being engaged 2. It might just be a harmless romantic fantasy and I was taking it too seriously/shot down her dream without needing to. Help keep the sub engaging!Regarding her visit (the one that kicked things off) she explained that she was embarrassed by her behaviour and even more so when it was 'exposed' to her fiancé. She said she didn't quite realise how much time she had lost and that it was very emotional time for her. I apologised for my wording during our spat and we both made up.We had my daughter 6 years after my youngest son was born. It just wasn't the same. The company I worked for was struggling, which meant less hours and less money. Between the 3 boys, there was always a game or field trip or concert or something. And my daughter wasn't an easy baby. Cried constantly, wouldn't breastfeed. My wife was depressed. You reached out for advice and guidance. And you acted on it. You did all things out of love. Yes you made mistakes, but you are owning and trying to rectifying them. Keep doing the work and I am sure, in time, your daughter will see that you both are working hard and supporting her and your relationship will heal. ADMIN MOD. aita for not explaining to my coworker that my daughter is my adopted sister. so i (23f) got emancipated at 16. my mother was highly abusive and my dad was a drug addict. around when i turned 20, i fought for custody of my sister and my mom gave it up fairly easily as she was stuck w bills trying to support my dad’s recovery then ...JacquesBN. AITA for not giving my daughter her education fund money? Asshole. I (54M) have two children (23F and 21M) with my wife (52F). When the kids were young, my parents set up education funds for both of them, which was very generous of them. My wife and I always expected our kids to attend college and then graduate school, as we have ...ADMIN. AITA for doing the same thing to my sister-in-law that she does to my son? Not the A-hole. So background: I (32f) have a brother, "Dave" (35m), who's married to "Sarah" (29f). They don't have children yet. I have a son who just turned four and a three-month-old daughter with my husband (39m). Aita for explaining to my daughter why her milestones, When I had given birth to my daughter, my partner (her Dad) had to work in a town six hours away when she was only a month or two old. He would come see us every weekend, either driving to us (6 or 7 hours) or taking the train …, BlackberryBetter5176. ADMIN. AITA for allowing my daughter to have "lazy" days at school. Not the A-hole. I (36F) have a daughter (17F) and we have a good relationship. I would say in 6th grade my daughter has been carrying herself well. She has an after-school job, tries to buy herself her own things, makes As and Bs, helps around the house, etc., Expert-Verified Answer. question. No one rated this answer yet — why not be the first? 😎. MariaHalley. Aita is a introduction from an age of despair. Found through …, 1 you should start listening to women. If you truly care about how others feel, you should listen to what they say, actively ask questions, and act accordingly. 2 always tip your waitress. It's not an easy job, and don't expect them to dance like a monkey for you before you allow them their livelihoods through a tip. , This product is no longer being offered. Instead, this card was replaced with the Milestone Mastercard. We may be compensated when you click on product links, such as credit cards,..., AITA for getting my friend to explain to my daughter why her dream career sucks? Not the A-hole. I came to America in the 1980s from China, and my family was very poor. My dad made pennies and had to support 4 kids, including me, and his wife and himself. I felt a lot of pressure to help my family and so my dad suggested that I become a nurse., The Port Authority of New York and New Jersey just selected a master planner responsible for developing a plan to modernize the entire Newark Airport. The Newark Liberty Internatio..., My family was small, consisting of me, my husband, daughter, parents, brother, his wife, and two nephews. Their loss devastated my life and everyone else's, particularly my father and sister-in-law. A year ago, my daughter, Betty (25F), was proposed to by her fiancé, and preparations began for their wedding., ADMIN MOD. (UPDATE) AITA for taking my daughter out to eat. I got home about an hour ago and was reading the comments for about 15 minutes (I'll be answering questions at the end of this post) The talk with my wife went ok-ish. I asked her what was going on. My wife was hesitant as she didn't want to have this talk at all., It happens. I was 20 When my mom died, everything fell on me for the most part. My older brother helped when I asked, but 100% of my measly check went into the house. I coordinated all the other financials like ssi payments, state aid, made sure everything was paid and food in the house not to mention bulk of cleaning while caretaking my grandma., I said I didn't want to. She then said to do it because I loved her. Dad said there was no woman more deserving. I told them I didn't love her enough to let her be my mom. She cried. My dad told me he didn't know why I was lying but therapy would help me see I loved her. I did go to therapy. I didn't change my mind on letting her be my mom ..., Long backstory: I have 2 daughters, Anna (elder)and Carly (younger) who are a year apart. Carly and Anna were close when they were younger but drifted apart in their teenage years. I think she started resenting Carly because Carly always seemed to do well, academically and socially. Anna decided to take loans and go to a college she wasn't ..., OPs daughter may feel slightly better about her social status leaving these kids out of her party, but these kids will always wonder what they did to her to deserve being othered. My only hope is that if OP gives in to the guilt trip, that none of these kids end up with lasting damage for the sake of an 11 year old social climber. , “You’re what?” It’s not every day your teenage daughter tells you she’s pregnant. That same teenage “You’re what?” It’s not every day your teenage daughter tells you she’s pregnant..., MLSS: Get the latest Milestone Scientific stock price and detailed information including MLSS news, historical charts and realtime prices. Indices Commodities Currencies Stocks, My father would disagree about that whole stop being a parent when they turn 18 😂 made it a whole thing as soon as I turned 18. didn’t see a cent when going to college. All of mine …, A healthy father-daughter relationship is key for developing a girl’s positive self-esteem. For all little g A healthy father-daughter relationship is key for developing a girl’s p..., She didn't tell her daughter WHY it could upset her. It's not just about this being a topic that could be painful to be brought up for her aunt, but any woman. She needs to understand that she doesn't have the right to ask invasive questions about any woman's body/reproductive choices., Amy was 5 when we got together and as such I see her as my own daughter. On to the actual story, 4 years ago, two days before Kay's high school graduation, Amy got very ill while visiting her grandparents and ended up needing emergency surgery. My wife and I rushed to be with Amy and admittedly I did not communicate well with Kay., Have the nanny talk to her too, but open a general conversation with your daughter about her body and changes and puberty in general, and make sure she knows you are here to help her. There's a lot more to female puberty than just periods, so learn with her. Guide her in seeking information., Update: AITA for telling my daughter moving out was a bad idea financially? UPDATE. Original. I posted about 3 months ago, I was very anxious about her moving out and the plan she made sounded so unlike her. I talked to her again and said I supported her decision and I wanted her to what made her happy., My daughter screamed in her face “I’m the boss of you! I’ll get you fired!”. The sitter calmly picked up the phone and called me (we have cameras in our house-which she knew about) and told me to come home, immediately. Upon arrival, she quit. Nothing I said or did could make her stay, and I understood., When I had given birth to my daughter, my partner (her Dad) had to work in a town six hours away when she was only a month or two old. He would come see us every weekend, either driving to us (6 or 7 hours) or taking the train (8 …, My daughter is going through a phase where she is borderline obsessed with socks. It’s LMFAO’s “shots, shots, shots,” but to the tune of &am..., AITA For Making My Daughter Quit Her Job? I am 43M, my wife Jen is 42F, and our daughter Angie is 17F. My wife and I got married after college, went on to get good jobs in our respective careers, and we make a combined 485k. We have a nice home, we live in a nice neighborhood, and we feel really blessed to have the lives we have and to be able ... , According to the NAHB Housing Market Index for May, builders are confident that buyers will be knocking on their (new) doors. Builder confidence rose 5 points to 50. Here’s a simpl..., OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: Telling her she needs to be independent before being engaged 2. It might just be a harmless romantic fantasy and I was taking it too seriously/shot down her dream without needing to. Help keep the sub engaging!, escapepodsbybob. ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my daughter she caused her own problems? Not the A-hole. My (m) wife (f) and I are both 48 with two daughters, Liz (30) and Ash (24). I’m not sure where to start with this so I’m just going to jump right into it. Liz use to date a young man named Pat., Jan 25, 2023 · With the help of their grandmother, they made her a grave. From her head grew the three sister plants: corn, beans, and squash. From her heart grew tobacco, which people still use to give thanks in ceremony. She is called ‘our mother’ and the people dance and sing to her to make the plants grow.” , Long backstory: I have 2 daughters, Anna (elder)and Carly (younger) who are a year apart. Carly and Anna were close when they were younger but drifted apart in their teenage years. I think she started resenting Carly because Carly always seemed to do well, academically and socially. Anna decided to take loans and go to a college she wasn't ..., AITA for explaining to my daughter why her milestones seems less important then her cousins. 1.3K upvotes · 2.6K comments. 4. 3. Sort by: Add a Comment. Snuffluffugus. • 1 yr. ago. Ah poop, it was removed. 1. Reply. Share. 145K subscribers in the redditonwiki community., My (39f) daughter very recently had her 17th birthday. My husband (42m) and I told her to pick out a restaurant that she'd like us to take her to for her birthday. She chose a seafood restaurant that we'd never been to. In looking over the menu I saw that the vast majority of the dishes contained shellfish., ADMIN MOD. (UPDATE) AITA for taking my daughter out to eat. I got home about an hour ago and was reading the comments for about 15 minutes (I'll be answering questions at the end of this post) The talk with my wife went ok-ish. I asked her what was going on. My wife was hesitant as she didn't want to have this talk at all.